Category: Mind-shifts

How to Feel Connection with Our Kids

I exhaled and listened with my eyes closed as my son ran to his room. His feet pounded the hallway and the door slammed shut with a swoosh and a crash. I heard the all-too-familiar sounds of paper flying up from the wind of the door and the door key crashing to the wood hallway …

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What Has Changed in Modern Parenting?

Previously I talked about how the Modern Parenting Mindset (compassionate parenting) differs from authoritarian and permissive parenting. Here I will answer the question of what is the Modern Parenting Mindset?   At the heart, it is a belief that a joyful life can be lived in tandem by parent and child.   The strategy to …

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When questions create SHAME

My body flooded with anxiety and my head went to those thoughts – the ones where we wonder if my child is trustworthy, regret that they have made a mistake, worry about the consequences of the mistake, and (embarrassingly) worry that it will reflect on me. It was 7:59pm and my son’s attendance for school …

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I am the Creator of Connection

“I am the creator of connection” – HP My eyes welled up and I got goosebumps when my client expressed these wise words. What can be more powerful than being the creator in a chaotic situation? When we make the mind-shifts that are necessary to know at the core of our body that we are …

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